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When Trans kids confide in a school teacher and cry for help

 Teachers who value each and every student will do everything within their ability to ensure that their pupils feel safe in their classrooms and that it is also a safe place to share, vent, and open up about deeply personal life stressors, or that those resources remain available to all. With new regulations in certain states making it against policy for teachers or school counselors to provide support mechanisms for their pupils without circling back to the parents, this gets challenging when policy forbids a teacher from affirming a child’s wishes. When a child explicitly states that he/she/they  does NOT want their own personal vents to a teacher to be shared back at home, but the teacher is restrained by new laws targeting trans community to have no Avenue to do anything in their own good faith and conscience, this is most certainly an unfortunate dilemma for teachers   (my sister-in-law having been one of those academic teachers). As a source for remedy, the teachers...

Respecting LGBTQ Families and Cultural differences

Let’s say we can agree together there is no reason to push any agenda on kids other than to teach be kind to everyone regardless of where they come from and to be wary of adults who aren’t family or family friends and never to offer personal information to anyone who isn’t a trusted family member. Adhering to this, I can see no issue with children and families in a room with a person who is not doing anything of harm, witnessed by all the families in the same library or bookstore , and having a drag queen story reader, my values sees no concern at all here. I also see no issue with like-minded families with LGBTQ members of their own family to embrace pride and they don’t have to keep this a secret from their kids if their kids are part of such a unique kind of family, more or less it’s part of their culture. That said, children will discuss their family stories openly with other children they befriend in school, and might openly share things about their unique family, which will becom...

Gender Affirming Care is “NOT Child Mutilation” Despite Fear-driven Antics

Summary: Gender affirming care is emotional support, mental health assurance, stress relief, acceptance wearing clothes affirming happiness, and for solid cases of gender dysphoria, HRT and after 18, surgery , I see nothing crazy about this, do what makes you happy. For children before puberty there’s no pharmacy nor surgery in gender affirming care that medical field uses at all, to even begin with ….  The gender affirmation is allowing the child to wear the clothes makeup and fashion that they identify with,  At puberty age, only then for gender dysphoria cases with much frustration and discomfort expressed over a chronic duration of time for that particular child, there are also no irreversible surgeries nor mutilations involved in gender affirming healthcare, and the debate is over allowing or not allowing puberty blockers .  For teens, not little kids, but teens, there’s a lot of self awareness and individuality, the debate is if all gender affirming surgery regardle...

Pursuit of Happiness for Transkids

If a child is happy in their family home and enjoying life, then likely there’s no abusive dynamic at all, it can happen in a Liberal family that affirms a child’s gender identity same way it can work out in a traditional religious one, In either scenario I see absolutely no concern.  A child will adapt to the values of their family and if that family is a healthy atmosphere for that child, the child may express happy things and tell stories they like to share, which is an indicator of genuine lack of any trauma. This would be in contrast to if the child is coerced to say they are ok and does not have a childlike expression beyond.  Even if a child can’t consent, one can assess with child protective services if a child is happy at home because a child has rights and that has nothing to do with an issue of consent such that a child can’t for any reason be taken seriously in any personal or individual expression just because they are a minor. Taking a happy child away from their...

On the 2023 Bud Light Boycott

 The embarrassment is that the people can be so transphobic that they boycott indefinitely a beer that tastes the same as it always did. The lesson is that people are very gullible when an ideological campaign indoctrinates them to hate trans people so much that they could hold rainbow #MAGA gear in 2016 and boycott a rainbow 7 years later.   You know, there was a time that if you were to order a product black people like and you were white, you would lose your demand, nobody would support your marketing team, you realize how offensive this plays out to the transgender community and makes one thing.    So NO I don’t think Bud Light did anything so bad because they rather exposed that we as a country learned absolutely NOTHING from civil rights and racism, promoting the same seclusion but of another targeted group “transgender people” and I’m ashamed.    The problem isn’t what Bud Light did the problem is the people have a lot of gullibility and the good new...

My Reaction to Megyn Kelly’s Anti-trans Commentary

Megyn Kelly, contrary to her current commentary, was never  a Trangender Ally at any time in her past and she she just simply didn’t vocalize a time ago any strong  position as the forefront of her conservative agenda. But now she decided to make it her talking point.  Megyn believes that transgender community has an agenda that is abusive to children. I strongly disagree with this narrative.  On Youtube comment replies, I elaborated on my reaction to Megyn by comparing with actual high profile cases of concern and clarifying how unfounded these claims are in the actual trans gender community. Here is a rough copy of that: ****** If you want to look at whose hurting kids look at USA Gymnastics Larry Nasser and Epstein, look at those who have a history of luring kids, look at those who download obscene materials involving kids,   These aren’t predominantly drag queens who read stories to families in libraries and bookstores in costume , these aren’t transgender p...

Debunking Anti-Wokeness

I want to add that it’s clear and evident that the targeting of trans people, using the argument it’s about protecting children, is part of a viscous top-down partisan agenda. The evidence of this is that we have had transgender people for a while now, we have had polls taken on the issue from both parties , and we have a “before the culture war agenda” and “after the culture war agenda” surveying of public opinion. Back in 2016, being transgender was not at the forefront of polarizing issues and we see #MAGA memorabilia in Pride colors at that time without a negative reaction. The “Drain the Swamp” agenda was tied at that time to anger over America putting international interests above American national interests and the need to “buy American, manufacturing in America, curb immigration, punish illegal immigration”. During this time, gender affirming care was a not a major issue of concern in red states however it was not celebrated it was an issue with common belief “just leave these ...

My Response to Quora “Why Trans Drag Queens allowed to teach children etc”

 Explaining Anyone who wants to educate Kids with positive intentions should not be questioned unless they have demonstrated a reason to assume otherwise. Quora Question: Why are transvestite drag queens so interested in children and why do so many parents fail to recognize that this form of entertainment is for adults only and is harmful to children? My response below:  That’s because adults do adult things with other adults and that doesn’t mean they can’t do kid-friendly activities when we are educating kids, transgender or not. There are trans people who don’t have any interest in educating kids while others do. The ones that do are simply teaching kids that it’s ok to be different. I am a parent and I am not trans nor LGBTQ and I am extremely comfortable having drag queens read to my kids unless there’s a particular reason other than “this is a trans drag queen” involving some kind of inappropriate action or expression that should make me concerned. Being trans and what y...

My Response to “Fox News: Biden Ripped on answering on Gender Surgeries for Kids”

 Correction : These puberty blockers are taken by other children for other diagnoses that are not gender dysphoria and anti-trans/protect-the-children laws are persistently advocating to remove access to ONLY ONE TARGETED GROUP…  and without complaint from you all on any other group of children getting access to these medicines except for kids with gender dysphoria. Allll Drugs have side effects !   All drugs !  Correction: THE OTHER COUNTRIES DID NOT BAN PUBERTY BLOCKERS, they restricted, not Bannnned These aren’t kids getting surgeries, these are adolescents who have a diagnosed gender dysphoria and have shown a solid in study after study, benefits from gender affirming care, so this narrative on this channel is in dispute .  I DO support access to this healthcare without banning it by the state. I support careful overview of who gets what,  but the angst isn’t about the restricting, it’s about BLANKET BANS that are causing adverse undue harm, pain and su...